Tell future employer I am leaving my current company because I am dating my current coworker
I am working at a company that has less than 100 people for 6 months. I started dating one of my coworker in my team for a few months. I decided to leave my current position because she feels it is hard to maintain this relationship while we are working on the same team.
If my future employer asks me why I am leaving, should I honestly tell them I am dating my coworker?
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I am working at a company that has less than 100 people for 6 months. I started dating one of my coworker in my team for a few months. I decided to leave my current position because she feels it is hard to maintain this relationship while we are working on the same team.
If my future employer asks me why I am leaving, should I honestly tell them I am dating my coworker?
interviewing relationships
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I am working at a company that has less than 100 people for 6 months. I started dating one of my coworker in my team for a few months. I decided to leave my current position because she feels it is hard to maintain this relationship while we are working on the same team.
If my future employer asks me why I am leaving, should I honestly tell them I am dating my coworker?
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I am working at a company that has less than 100 people for 6 months. I started dating one of my coworker in my team for a few months. I decided to leave my current position because she feels it is hard to maintain this relationship while we are working on the same team.
If my future employer asks me why I am leaving, should I honestly tell them I am dating my coworker?
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I do not think it is a good idea.
If you say that, it might indicate you are not mature enough to separate your personal and professional life.
I decided to leave my current position because she feels it is hard to maintain this relationship while we are working on the same team.
See, it's not the "organization" who has a problem - it's "you" (either or both of you).
You don't need to lie either - just don't mention it.
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I do not think it is a good idea.
If you say that, it might indicate you are not mature enough to separate your personal and professional life.
I decided to leave my current position because she feels it is hard to maintain this relationship while we are working on the same team.
See, it's not the "organization" who has a problem - it's "you" (either or both of you).
You don't need to lie either - just don't mention it.
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I do not think it is a good idea.
If you say that, it might indicate you are not mature enough to separate your personal and professional life.
I decided to leave my current position because she feels it is hard to maintain this relationship while we are working on the same team.
See, it's not the "organization" who has a problem - it's "you" (either or both of you).
You don't need to lie either - just don't mention it.
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I do not think it is a good idea.
If you say that, it might indicate you are not mature enough to separate your personal and professional life.
I decided to leave my current position because she feels it is hard to maintain this relationship while we are working on the same team.
See, it's not the "organization" who has a problem - it's "you" (either or both of you).
You don't need to lie either - just don't mention it.
I do not think it is a good idea.
If you say that, it might indicate you are not mature enough to separate your personal and professional life.
I decided to leave my current position because she feels it is hard to maintain this relationship while we are working on the same team.
See, it's not the "organization" who has a problem - it's "you" (either or both of you).
You don't need to lie either - just don't mention it.
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